Did you know that there are thousands of people who are too scared to go out and date because they think they will get hurt or no one will like them or they’re too fat or too skinny or too short or too tall or too boring or don’t make enough money or don’t have enough education or have too much education……..and on and on….?
If everyone is too scared to go out to meet people, who’s going to be out there for you when you want to date?
Where did we ever get the idea that we might win the lottery even though we don’t buy tickets….or that we will meet the most perfect person for us even though we never go out other than work? Statisticians laugh. What are the odds?
What do you need to do to get over your fears and anxieties about dating, meeting new people?
1. Change Something About The Way You Look?
How long will that take? How will it make any difference if this is the real you?
2. Find More Time?
Surely you can carve out 30-60 minutes for a first date, can’t you?
3. Feel More Confident That Someone Will Like You?
If you don’t like who you are then it might help to go get counseling to find out why.